Reflections on Dad. Some may say that Dad’s view of the world was a tad cantankerous and often challenging. He was on some levels, but he saw that as a virtue and, in his own way, how he got things done. Especially so in spotting a wrong and righting it when it came to us, his family. He was a confronter for the most part, almost mafia like. He saw that as his role and how he could best look out for us. And he did that in spades throughout his life, our life. This is his legacy. Dad was a typical Frier with a stoic, un-emotional approach. Grumpy side apart he did have a sense of humour under it all. For me a stand out example was when I was about 19. I had to fix the sub-frame on a mini and the only way to do it was tip the car on its side – in our drive-way against the wall of the house. Unusually he came home from work early that day. I thought oh no, he’s not going to be happy. But, he just walked by and muttered.. ‘what, have trouble parking did we?’ Back then I considered being a motor mechanic but he gently gave me some career advice and told me to go do something I would be good at! He was right. Dad knew his limitations but his influence on us was limitless. I don’t think he realised that but I had the opportunity fairly recently to tell him. I’m glad I did. I told him he should take great credit for shaping the way we boys, and my boys, have turned out. Our characteristics and values are similar to his like: • making our own way by working hard, provide for and love our family • not relying on others or grovel to anyone • being careful with our money and have enough to buy a round He told me he had made mistakes but he had done his best. It’s up to us how we follow in his footsteps but for me, I promise you Dad – like you I’ll do my best. Malcolm